dating white men is good in and of itself.... I have been involved with a few and am attracted to them. I think the best kind though, are those that acknowledge and realize their positions as white men.....with hope they might over come it......The most well intentioned still needs to realize (very complicated issue of course)what positions they hold in this society...but I think relationships with white men can be a beautiful thing...and have seen and witnessed some that are very beautiful. There is still hope.